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Monday, March 23, 2009

how do you think he got me....?   jk

THINGS ASIANS DO

#7 Ninja Dating

Males of all races fear the awkwardness and embarrassment of asking someone out on a date because of the stigma of rejection. Furthermore, even if successful in obtaining the first few dates, the man must overcome the risk associated with achieving official dating status by asking to define the relationship, at which point the woman will say she just wants to be friends or will accede and say yes. A non-Asian male will manage this risk directly by making it obviously clear to the woman their romantic intentions from the very first conversation. Asians males, however, prefer a stealthy, indirect approach called Ninja Dating, which eliminates the risk of rejection prior to obtaining official dating status.

The following tactics of Ninja Dating work together to generate maximum surprise and confusion towards the ninja’s true intentions. If the tactics are successful, the target will end up in a relationship with the ninja without ever having the chance to reject him.

Disguised Infiltration: Operating under the camouflage of friendship, a ninja dater will invite the target to casual one-on-one dinners after work to “catch up” or “just hang out”. The dinner together will be identical in all respects to a normal group of friends activity, except that there will only be the ninja and the female.

Shadow Ambush: To progress to more serious dating activities, a ninja will surprise the target by inviting her to implied group outings to Broadway shows, romantic comedies, or barbeques at the beach. However, upon getting to the venue, the rest of the group never shows up and the romantic outing coincidentally becomes just the ninja and the target, who does not suspect the subterfuge. In addition, the ninja will begin to flirtatiously touch the targets arms, give shoulder massages, and stroke their hair with friendly compliments.

Smoke Bomb Escape: If there is little progress towards goals or the target suspects romantic intentions and impending rejection is inevitable, a ninja dater will abruptly stop calling and disengage from all communication. Infiltration of the next target, who is usually a friend or roommate of the original female target, will commence immediately without any of the usual problems associated with pursuing a close relation.

An unsuspecting female target has no chance against an experienced ninja dater, because the female’s natural power in determining the status of the relationship cannot exercised if the relationship is ambiguous. The correct strategy to deal with a suspected ninja dater is to use his own tactics against him. Take advantage of the opportunity by pursuing multiple potential relationships with many ninjas simultaneously, getting the maximum amount of free dinners, shows, and gifts. Because the time spent with the ninjas are not officially dates, but just good times between platonic friends, a female can get all of the benefits dating multiple people without acquiring a promiscuous reputation.




Thursday, October 30, 2008




October 26, 2008

Fury of Girl’s Fists Lifts Up North Korean Refugee Family

SEOUL, South Korea — For South Koreans, boxing is mainly a sport of the past, a metaphor for what the country was in the 1970s and ’80s before its economy jumped to 13th largest in the world and a generation of young people grew up with privileges their parents could only imagine. Boxing was the sport of poor people, fighting for what they believed was rightfully theirs.

Now, a girl whose family fled North Korea is breathing just a hint of new life into the sport by winning a world championship at age 17. In a soccer-crazed country, her hardscrabble tale has generated some headlines.

Her promoters, striving to fill the seats for matches, played up her story. Posters for her fights bill her as Choi Hyun-mi, the “Defector Girl Boxer.”

The boxing metaphor is still apt for Ms. Choi and her family. She and her parents and an older brother fled the North for a better life only to run into prejudice. Even many South Koreans who want their nation to reunite with the North view the approximately 10,000 refugees a bit like poor relations, less skilled and less urbane than the South’s highly educated citizens.

Ms. Choi’s father, who had been a successful businessman in the North, has been unable to find work, and the family has been reduced to living mainly on government handouts to the refugees.

Ms. Choi hopes to supplement her family’s income with her fighting fees. Like Americans who vaulted past class bias through a life in the ring, Ms. Choi also hopes to lift her family’s stature.

“My parents gave up everything in North Korea to give their children a better life in the South,” she said. “Boxing is my way to prove that my parents made the right decision.”

Ms. Choi pursues that dream in a gym on the top floor of a five-story building with no elevator, in a ring with an uneven and patched canvas. Faded photos of former South Korean boxing greats line the walls.

The photos, and the American hip-hop that blares from speakers, are constant reminders of how much Ms. Choi’s life has changed since her family arrived here four years ago. When she began her boxing career in North Korea, she trained daily under portraits of North Korea’s leader, Kim Jong-il.

Government scouts in North Korea detected Ms. Choi’s potential when she was 13. Ms. Choi, now 5 feet 7 inches, was almost a head taller than her peers in a country where many children suffer from malnourishment, and she was faster than anyone in her school in Pyongyang, the North’s capital.

In 2003, she was approached by the head coach of the prestigious Kim Chul-joo Educational University in Pyongyang, who was developing a national women’s team in the hope that women’s boxing would be added as an event in the 2008 Olympics.

She was the youngest of the 20 girls the government trained, encouraging them with more food and a cash allowance. (The International Olympic Committee, however, decided not to admit women’s boxing as an Olympic sport.)

In 2004, her father, Choi Chul-soo, decided that the family should flee the North’s rampant repression and poverty. He had gotten a taste of the freedoms other countries offered while on business trips abroad.

It was not an easy choice. The family had lived a life of relative comfort. He traveled overseas for his state-owned company, which exported zinc to China and sea urchins to Japan. The family’s apartment was stocked with Japanese appliances.

“I dressed my children in nothing but Japanese clothes,” Mr. Choi said. “But in North Korea, even if you were rich, you were always under surveillance. People disappeared.”

He was still worried enough about North Korea when he first arrived that he changed his given name to the one he has now, hoping the North’s government would take longer to identify him and possibly punish his relatives who remained behind.

The family escaped when Mr. Choi was on a business trip in China. He sent for his family and bribed border guards to ensure a safe crossing. From China, the family was smuggled into Vietnam. After four months there hiding in hotel rooms, the family was granted asylum by the South Korean government and flown to Seoul.

But once here, Mr. Choi’s fears were realized. Without work, he could no longer afford luxuries for his family, which lives in a rented apartment that is half the size of its apartment in Pyongyang.

“I sometimes miss my life in North Korea and wonder whether I made the right choice,” he said.

One bright spot is his daughter’s budding career. After entering amateur contests in 2006, she swept five domestic championships, suffering only one defeat in 17 fights. In September 2007, she turned professional.

A little more than a year later, on Oct. 11, Ms. Choi beat Xu Chun Yan of China for the World Boxing Association’s women’s featherweight championship.

It was not an easy match. Ms. Choi’s more experienced opponent landed many punches. But she eventually tired, and Ms. Choi used her straight punches to dominate the later rounds. Her coach, Kim Han-sang, said Ms. Choi’s height gave her an advantage.

The win made her one of five South Korean women to hold a boxing championship title.

“When I returned to my corner between rounds of my championship bout, I glimpsed down at my mother sobbing,” Ms. Choi said.

It was clear to Ms. Choi that she was not only helping shoulder the family’s hopes, but that she might even be able to raise its income a bit with her cut of the $7,000 she makes per fight.

On a recent day, she returned to the gym after taking a week off to recuperate from her championship bout. She wore oversize sunglasses on the street to hide her black eyes and swollen face. Her arms still bore bruises.

She said she boxed for her family, for fame and for her figure. “Boxing makes you curvy,” she said, striking a pose with a giggle. “I want to be a pretty girl who does pretty boxing.”

She added: “But in this sport, you do take some punches.”

She is about to resume her daily training routine, which includes three sessions a day, in order to prepare to defend her title in December. Her school allows her time off to train. She must lose 10 pounds to weigh in at 126 pounds or under for her featherweight class.

Her coach says she needs to develop a knockout punch. But he has faith. He says that, unlike other female boxers, she is at least as concerned with being a good fighter as with staying in shape.

Ms. Choi says she wants to sweep all the world titles in her weight division and then break into the country’s entertainment industry, where a few former athletes have found success.

Raising her gloved hand into the air, she said, “I’m going to make everyone recognize my name.”




Monday, September 29, 2008



Need a Real Sponsor here

John Rutledge blogging at rutledgecapital.com, Sept. 14

Year before last a group of North Korean people sneaked across the border [into China] by swimming across the Yalu River at night. The next day they showed up at the South Korean Embassy in Shenyang asking for political asylum. While the South Koreans were talking it over the North Koreans climbed over the wall to gain entry to the U.S. Consulate which is just next door. . . .

The U.S. guys allowed them to stay at the consulate while our government tried to figure out how to handle it. They ended up living in the cafeteria for more than a year. During this time two of the people, a 21-year-old boy and a 23-year-old girl, fell in love. Finally, the U.S. government made an arrangement with the Chinese government to fly them all to the U.S. as political refugees. The two sweethearts wanted to go together so my friend Bill found a host family in Louisville, Kentucky who would take them both in. . . .

When the North Koreans learned they would be allowed to live in the U.S. they told my friend at the consulate that they thought it was important for them to learn the national anthem before they got there. So, being a good sport, Bill gave Star Spangled Banner classes in the cafeteria. On the day they left for the U.S. he took all six of them out into the parking lot and they sang the Star Spangled Banner at the top of their lungs so the people in all the other diplomatic compounds could hear them.




Monday, September 22, 2008






come check out some good music tonight! i'll be around the nyu area at "lion's den" for this concert around 8pm- i promise you won't be disappointed!

if you're free, be sure to stop by ...and maybe i'll buy you a drink!

when: tonight (9.22.08),  8pm
where:  Lion's Den, 214 sullivan st (btwn bleeker and 3rd)


SEE YOU THERE!






Saturday, September 20, 2008



DO YOU HAVE 10 MINUTES TO SPARE?



if so- PLEASE help me- a simple letter can help to change the course of this issue (north korean human rights, of course).

there is a bill sitting in senate right now that must be passed THIS MONDAY- time is short but even just a few letters can make the difference to show them that WE are here, WE are paying attention, and that WE care!

all the information you need about what this is, why it needs to pass and how to do it, can be found [ here ].

PLEASE go check it out- write the letter (handwritten if possible- typed letters are often overlooked because of the sheer number of letters--and there's even a sample letter there you can copy!), FAX IT(regular mail is so delayed they won't get the letter for over a week), and that's it!

have questions? don't hesitate to ask me...
and DON'T hesitate to ask your friends, family, school-mates, teachers, ANYONE- to do it too!


many many thanks!!




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